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The Silent Struggle: Performing at Work While Feeling Broken Inside Jul 08, 2024

Anyone who follows me knows that I’m a “Swiftie.” As a trauma coach, a song on her latest album, The Tortured Poet’s Department (TTPD), hit home for me – I Can Do It With A Broken Heart. Some of the lyrics describe the familiar behavior of a high-functioning trauma...

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As My World Turns - How Soap Operas Shaped My Perspective of The World Jul 07, 2024

Growing up, I faced a recurring challenge of headaches that kept me home from school more often than I would have liked. It wasn't about playing hooky; these headaches were real, and they've persisted into my adult life, exacerbated by a head injury along the way. When I stayed home, my routine...

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Resilience Career Coaching - 7 Tenets of Career Coaching for Mental Wellness Jun 26, 2024
 
 

For career coaching to be truly effective, it must be tailored to the unique needs of each client, rather than adopting a one-size-fits-all approach. This requires clients to be open and transparent with their coach about their reasons for seeking new opportunities.

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Advocate for Yourself in the Workplace and with Your Healthcare Providers Jun 23, 2024

Advocating for yourself both at work and within the healthcare system requires confidence, clear communication, and an understanding of your rights and needs. Let’s talk about strategies for effective self-advocacy in both contexts:

Self-Advocacy at Work

Know Your Rights and Policies:

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Healing Through Art: The Role of Painting in Treating Complex PTSD Jun 17, 2024

As a child, I loved arts & crafts. Somehow, over the years, I lost trust in my artistic abilities. About 10 years ago, I started going to Muse Paint Bar once a month to attend a painting session. My daughter introduced me to the studio and I loved it. I even went alone when no one else...

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Raising Awareness: June is PTSD Awareness Month Jun 06, 2024

June is PTSD Awareness Month. A month dedicated to increasing understanding and awareness of PTSD and Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (C-PTSD). C-PTSD is a condition that often goes unrecognized despite its profound impact on those who suffer from it.

What is Complex PTSD?

Complex PTSD,...

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The Crucial Role of Job Descriptions in Accommodating Disabilities Jun 06, 2024

In today's diverse workforce, accommodating individuals with disabilities is not just an ethical obligation but also a legal requirement for businesses. Job descriptions play a pivotal role in ensuring that individuals with disabilities are provided with reasonable accommodations to perform their...

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The Subjective Nature of Pain: Beyond the Number Scale May 24, 2024

Pain is a universal experience, yet it remains one of the most subjective sensations we endure. Despite the common use of numerical scales to measure pain, the reality is that pain varies dramatically from person to person. Understanding this variability is crucial in providing empathetic and...

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Shattered Dreams: The Rollercoaster of Being Fired and Rising Again May 02, 2024

Shattered Dreams: The Rollercoaster of Being Fired and Rising Again

Imagine riding a rollercoaster without knowing when the twists and turns will end. That’s what it feels like for those with Complex PTSD, where keeping a job becomes a Herculean task. From interpersonal challenges to the...

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Embracing Healing Companionship: Challenging Stereotypes of the “Crazy Cat Lady” May 02, 2024

World that often rushes to label and stereotype, individuals find solace and healing in unexpected places. One such stereotype that has persisted over the years is that of the “crazy cat lady.” While it may seem harmless on the surface, this label can carry a negative connotation and...

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To Hug or Not? Navigating the Complex World of Physical Touch May 02, 2024

 

It’s funny, I was working on a post about hugs when I discovered that yesterday was National Hug Day. I may be a day late but physical contact like hugs is always a “touchy” subject for those with Complex PTSD.

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Unlocking Your Ikigai: Transitioning from Career to Vocation May 02, 2024

In the realm of career guidance, the journey to self-discovery often begins with an introspective exercise known as Ikigai. Today, as I engaged with a client in my Trauma Responsive Career Guidance program, her question sparked a profound reflection on the disparity between a career and a...

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